2 Sam 1 when David returns to his people after the deaths of Saul and Jonathan
“David took up this lament concerning Saul and his son Jonathan and he ordered that the people of Judah be taught this lament of the bow.”
We have removed ourselves so often from the rawness of death and hidden our grief. I remember after Mum died a sense (wrongly) that I needed to have it all together as I was Christian and therefore should not mourn or weep. The Bible has plenty of lament throughout its words. Lament and mourning is not something God expects us to walk away from when we follow Him. We can pour out our hearts to Him, to recall those we have lost, to lament deeply with a sure foudnation of our faith. God will not dissolve because of our tears. He collects them.
I am thankful for my time at Regent where lament is a very tangible part of the community there. Lament is held alongside celebration. There is room for the tension of both joy and weeping side by side. There I learnt that the gospel is truly big enough for both our joy and weeping and that those two things are things a community cna do side by side as one community, as one body.